What was the purpose of sex education?
Awareness of early child needs guidance.
Children sex education is the development of early physical and psychological needs of a certain age. Early childhood is a very important part of life for a period of time, the period of sex education, children will largely determine the future life of "sexual identity", the impact of gender behavior and subsequent target selection aptitude.
Correct and proper sense of the need to cultivate the same sex.
Children in day-to-day peer exchanges has resulted in the so-called boys, girls, the concept, which will make a number of sex, including concern for human organs. Sometimes a person, sometimes the opposite sex partners, or look at each other so that the other organs, or by hand touch, and even more fun to imitate doctors, such as lifting skirt of the game.
Psychology of human development and gender roles in the formation of a certain degree of regularity, the general term of their natural development, and often it is normal; if inappropriate teaching methods, will be the result of abnormal formation of the younger children especially. And children in and around the contact process, will gradually understand how a boy should be, how a girl should be; coupled homosexual and heterosexual contact with a child between a series of regulatory requirements, because the social roles of men and women of different gender role expectations and behavior gender requirements are different. That gender is more appropriate psychological need for the formation of the sex education.
Parents have misconceptions about sex education
Liangliang like normal families and neighbors Tingting played once, the two play play, Moon on Ting-ting, said: "You are my wife", it Tingting to pulling into the "bridal chamber" . Two men in bed do not know what to do, Liangliang then suddenly kissed Tingting. Tingting did not expect that soon ran out crying mother told Moon that she bullied Liangliang. A result, Moon has been playing a few mothers face more than crying.
See "sex" and reprimanded the children terribly.
Children are curious What is the difference between boys and girls, parents in the bath as a child would also like to steal. Reality, the parents of the children are very careful, do not want to engage children. So, to see the child to imitate some of the intimate acts between adults, such as kissing, hugging, etc., and some mothers on the accused to stop: "Stop!" "The shame!" Or even beaten by hand to force open a . The formation of such an approach would give children a wrong idea: with the opposite sex intimacy between friends is not good, shame, and the activities of these acts is to be suppressed by punishment.
Jingjing mother one day said: "The grandmother said that I got it from the garbage heap, this is true?" Mom is very embarrassing, while to coax the corner: "Your grandmother was right, you are from the garbage heap The from out. after you get married and then grew up to tell you. "
Jingjing kindergarten, and there are days, her father back from the kindergarten, she asked: "Daddy, why is the toilet, some children have to stand, I have to squat? I secretly look at tigers, We look different. Why ah? "Dad said," In the future you will see grow up. There are, ah, the future points to concentrate on the toilet, do not to stare at others, as no child. "
Sexual taboo to talk about scientific knowledge.
In traditional education, the parents and children are always taboo to talk about "sex", and let the children find themselves, often for many children because of "sex" out of curiosity, and committed an error. In fact, young children, the way that is natural and children to talk about "sex" issue. In addition, the normal parents should be attentive to their words and actions at home and privacy, to let children develop good habits, and from time to time to remind children how to protect themselves in good time so as not to be hurt bad.
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